R. Kelly is a monster. But we’re all to blame.
Brett Kavanuagh is spectacularly unpopular with people of color.
“Boys will be boys,” they say.
In other words, “Men gotta rape. They can’t help it. It’s their nature.”
It can be difficult to know what makes a good sexual encounter, in the age of pickup artists who instruct men to push past no and box office hits that belittle women’s anger and normalize abuse.
Here are a few things you should look for in every hook-up.